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Advise greatfully received re coping with 4 yo wheelchair user and newborn

Hi, I was wondering if anyone could offer some practical advise as to how to manage the logistics of having a disabled child and new born baby...
I have a 4 year old with cp who uses a wheelchair when out and about. I am expecting my second child (due in June) and am starting to wonder/worry about the logistics of getting about with both children in tow! We have looked down the route of special needs double buggies but feel that our son should not regress back to using a buggy as he is doing so well in his manual chair. I would be very greatful if anyone who has been in a similar situation could offer any advise or share experiences for us to concider. Many thanks in advance.
I have a 4 year old with cp who uses a wheelchair when out and about. I am expecting my second child (due in June) and am starting to wonder/worry about the logistics of getting about with both children in tow! We have looked down the route of special needs double buggies but feel that our son should not regress back to using a buggy as he is doing so well in his manual chair. I would be very greatful if anyone who has been in a similar situation could offer any advise or share experiences for us to concider. Many thanks in advance.
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If you are in the UK - Homestart are a very helpful charity. I had a lovely lady come round to help me once a week. You'll be given priority as mother of newborn and disabled under 5. You could also try contacting SS re respite options. Also various SN organisations that could help - varies from area so social worker would be able to help you with that. Appreciate if yr not already 'in the loop' that's a frustrating one to get going.
You'll also be surprised how quickly no2 learns to walk along with you on reins or stand on buggy board (have seen these on wheelchairs. Obv not the best option if yr child is self propelling!) My 2 yo has barely seen his pushchair. Born out of necessity but becomes habit