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Dating

hi I'm 43yrs old female who had a brain tumour medulloblastoma three years ago they could not remove all of it to dangerous so have scans every few months I am partially disabled and have some effects from the ops. I am in the process of dating
i have had one date but broke off as he was to serious for me. I have decided despite my dissabilties to have fun and dating as the last three years have been serious for me . I also don't want my dissabilties to stand in the way of dating . I live in Suffolk and am a member of a dating site but you have to so careful . So i am picky. I just thought I'd post as if there any suitors please get in touch . I know this isn't a dating site though . It is so hard when you are disabled as you have to explain your conditions and can put men off but I am honest about myself .
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As my disability has changed I feel that if I couldn't be seen when i was only using one crutch I have very little chance of being seen now.
I know that everyone has different dating experiences and that there are some really nice people out there ... somewhere
@smiler43 - I hope you find your someone special soon
I think getting out there and meeting people is great! Dating is tough for most people let's not forget that! I was always open about my disability and if they can't handle it, it's their problem! Go for it!
Specialist Information Officer - Cerebral Palsy
@smiler43 you have nothing to lose by trying and who knows if the time is right for both of you you may find the one you are looking for. Stay safe though.
You go on one to look for someone and you have to pay to send a message or receive one.
Chat sites or sex contact sites are only that in name in reality they are the same ways of meeting people without paying, you can get to know people and filter people by age sex etc just like a dating site but less regimented.