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Claire61
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How do you meet new people, I'm alone and I never go out so I don't meet anyone anymore and I'm becoming very lonely
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Really wish I knew the answer, our son is in exactly the same situation. We have tried so many ways to help him to no avail. Even thought of penpals.
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I have wracked my brains and I have had a few good ideas, however they all involve me walking into places that I don't know. on My own! Which is terrifying to me, i do try to get out and about on My scooter but i just end up feeling lonelier.
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Hi @Claire61
Welcome to the community! Sorry to hear that you are feeling lonely. Have you tried looking online for clubs in your local area that you might be interested in?
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We have tried this for our son to no avail
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@Claire61 Sometimes people who are alone have a double barrier to cross, not just of their disabilities but of taking the steps to venture outside their comfort level again. As @Ami2301 says think about what your interests might be and have a look online for local events. There are other events which take place which you might come across on social media for example there is a get together near me once a month for people who have encountered things like depression.
Even getting out sometimes just to shops or the library and speaking to people can lighten the day. -
Hi Claire. Thought about getting a pet? Sounds silly but they are a good source of comfort xx
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Thanks for your replies , i agree about the double problems, i have worked so hard on my depression and mobility problems and I love going to my local supermarket because I feel like ive really achieved something and I like the friendliness of the people, my biggest problem is the amount of hours I have to fill, my condition fluctuates sometimes hour to hour so its difficult to commit to anything much. I must say that I'm incredibly positive 90% of the time and quite happy with my own company, im just aware of the loneliness and lack of friendship, life's hard sometimes but im still very lucky in many ways.
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Hi Welshbirdne, I have 2 chihuahuas and they are my reason for getting up every day. they fill my heart with joy and love. I wouldn't have got this far forward without them,
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Claire61, I have four cats that keep me going when I feel like giving up.
Do you walk your dogs outside, perhaps down a street or in a park? A dog can create an instant connection with another dog-lover.
I am in the same situation for many reasons. I am casting about trying to find a way to connect with a community.
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