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Chronic pain

croxiecroxie Posts: 4Member Listener
I have had sciatica for 2 years. Each day is different. There is always pain but sometimes on a more manageable level. Others days I have to stay at home. Many times have to say no to invitations. Sitting is a major problem,so if there is a lot of sitting it’s a no go. So no long car journeys, cinema, going out to lunch etc. After 30 mins pain is too much and I have to stand up. Which can be quite embarrassing in a public place. So I just say no to these invitations, just like I did today. Makes me feel very alone and is comforting to know there are other people out there who get what it’s like.

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  • Adrian_ScopeAdrian_Scope Posts: 2,479Administrator Scope community team
    Hi @Croxie and a warm welcome to the community.
    Have you been getting much help at all with pain relief? If it helps, we do have a chronic pain discussion group here where you might find some tips and advice to help manage it.
    Senior Online Community Officer
    Scope
  • thespicemanthespiceman Posts: 4,500Community champion Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @croxie   Pleased to meet you welcome.

    Thank you for joining and sharing.

    Sorry to hear this. You are not alone. You come to the right place. For information, friendship and support.

    I am one of the team of community champions. We guide, advise and help new members who join the community.

    Please have a look around our website.   There will be members of our community who can identify what you are going through.

    Please if we can help with anything.  Please ask.  Some one will know a member of our team or a member of our community.

    Please take care.

    @thespiceman


  • Chloe_ScopeChloe_Scope Posts: 3,328Administrator Scope community team
    Hi @croxie and a warm welcome to the community! I'm sorry to hear that your pain has meant saying no to invitations, I understand how frustrating and upsetting this can be.

    You may find the Coffee Lounge a good place to have a chat with other community members.

    Please do let us know if there we can help you with. :)
    Chloe
    Online Community Officer
  • AilsAils Posts: 454Community champion Pioneering
    Hi @croxie and welcome to the Community.  It is nice to meet you and thank you for sharing with us.  I'm really sorry to hear you are in so much pain and have to turn down invitations.  I can appreciate how frustrating that must be for you.  You have come to the right place to reach out to other members who are here to support you.  It is a great place to make new friends too so I hope you enjoy your time with us.  If there is anything we can help/support you with then please just let us know.  All the best.  :smile:
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