Hi, my name is Maria12345678910!

Maria12345678910

Hi there 
I have a son with learning different and more problems and I am finding it hard to put a nappy on him because he got to age were he say nappy is for baby.

Tammyjane33

Hi @Maria12345678910 welcome to scopes online community. I'm Tammy.
It's nice to meet you. Take alook around the site, and I hope you find it helpful. If you have any questions don't hesitate to contact me ?

chiarieds

Hi @Maria12345678910 - Welcome to the community & thank you for joining.

Have you looked at children's incontinence products?

See: https://www.incontinencesupermarket.co.uk/shop-by-type/children-incontinence-products   for example. Hopefully there will be something on such a site that he will feel is more 'grown up' for him.

Maria12345678910

Thanks you for this 

Adrian_Scope

Hi @Maria12345678910 and welcome to the community. Can I ask how old your son is?

Maria12345678910

23 year old but he head is still children 

Maria12345678910

On top of this I have a daughter who as bad special needs and she in hospital with lot of treatment and doctor as told us there are go to cut off her vagina 

poppy123456

I definitely think you have misunderstood what was said to you by the doctor and i'd advise you to go back and speak to them again.

chiarieds

I am sorry, I thought your son was much younger. You would need to look at adult incontinence products for him.

I am also sorry that your daughter is in hospital Why is that? Is she perhaps going to have a vaginal hysterectomy (the removal of her womb)?

Maria12345678910

There are remove the hole womb for helth reasons and tonight she got a pump drill inside of her vagina tonight for treatment tomorrow morning and it looks painful.
I am staying tonight at the hospital with her

Maria12345678910

There only found it when I took my daughter to her hospital appointment before Christmas 

chiarieds

@Maria12345678910 - So sorry to read about your daughter's surgery, but good that you are there to support and help her, and her problems were found out quickly. My best wishes for you and your daughter.

Adrian_Scope

I hope it all goes well today @Maria12345678910. Let us know how your daughter gets on. Wishing her a speedy recovery.

Maria12345678910

My daughter surgery as not gone well today and there are remove hole vagina and there could not do nothing today there only put her on a pump drill for the morning 

Maria12345678910

And when there remove the hole vagina out she will be pee from her bum for while in till the other doctor can sore out the problem 

chiarieds

I am sorry the surgery has been extensive. I imagine the doctors will do reconstructive surgery at a later date, but this must have been a great worry for you. Thank you for letting us know, and please keep in touch.

Maria12345678910

There also found something wrong with her tummy as well it is spread round her body 

Maria12345678910

As well there just have to put her on bigger pump drill down her vagina in till the doctor do surgery and turn her urine out the bum hole 

chiarieds

This must all be so very difficult for you. How is your daughter coping?

Maria12345678910

Not good and bigger pump drill really hurt her and she can't wait to go home and now she only loud liquid food because there found something in the tummy 

chiarieds

When will she come home? Do you know? Very difficult for you both, & I am sure you will be pleased when she is home again. I am so sorry she has been in so much pain, which you must find so difficult to see.