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  • Ami2301
    Ami2301 Community member Posts: 7,942 Disability Gamechanger
    Totally agree with you @CockneyRebel I actually hated my partner way before we became a couple, we started off as friends and it blossomed.

    @RANDY1 I understand that from past experience this would cause you to think this way but I can assure you we are not all the same.
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  • james4
    james4 Community member Posts: 9 Listener
    As a man , having that role of provider, father and handy man of your family when they are taken away can't work, can't play with kids , can't do anything in the house at all and the only thing that you still can do the women don't wan't not from you anyway then yes it is a big thing
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Community member Posts: 6,388 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @RANDY1 Thank you for sharing with the community . The problems you seem to be having.

    One of the problems is that all relationships are not all based on Sex and you need to understand that. Also many ladies who may like the following qualities in  a man.

    Being supportive, kind, loving thinking how best to be a partner a friend someone to confide in to.

    Trust and respect.  Being honest and open. Regardless of having a disability or not.

    One thing I did and have learnt is to have abroad range of lifestyle and social education knowledge.  

    Not all about looks.

    I would advise first start to concentrate and making and forming friendships. Have a range of activities that you do meet other people.

    Through other people never know where or what happens.

    Maybe to change the attitudes that you have, start to seek some help.

    Understand  have concerns.  You have this disability. You need maybe to find and be honest with your self, have acceptance.

    Through acceptance things can change. 

    Wish you well and hope and pray you find your soul less troubled.  In the new year.

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  • RANDY1
    RANDY1 Community member Posts: 11 Connected
    Hey,Ive said nothing wrong toward woman i just tell the truth,if you dont like that its not my problam.
  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 10,821 Scope online community team
    Thanks for chiming in and sharing @Faybe_girl. I hope you'll stick around on our community. :smile:

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  • HATE
    HATE Posts: 1 Listener
    edited September 2019
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  • Sam_Alumni
    Sam_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,671 Disability Gamechanger
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  • Derbymduck
    Derbymduck Community member Posts: 39 Courageous
    RANDY1 said:
    Well you both must have a good relationship i am single male & is allot different because plenty of woman have abused me & be nasty & call me names because all the woman that i have come accross so far have been very nasty to me because they all they want is a man to give them a good seeing to & if you are disabled then you are not up to the job,this is why most woman are very much selfish & the world would be a better place without them
    I'm sorry but I've got to say it. It's not the walking stick that's the problem it's your attitude. 

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