I have a night job but now social services have said it's not a good idea
tiredandlonely
Community member Posts: 4 Listener
I really want to work I love earning and being able to provide. I have a night job but now social services have said it's not a good idea that I go back because my daughter is violent and could hurt someone when I'm not there I now am too scared to go in. I will find another job but I'm so tired of doing this all alone with n9 friends or family. Is there anyone in my exact predicament out there.
Comments
-
Hi @tiredandlonely
I'm not in your predicament, but I thought I'd welcome you to the forum. It sounds like you're in a really difficult spot! There are so many people on the forum, all with their own situations and solutions, so I hope someone can help you out!
Waylay -
Thank you waylay I appreciate that and I hope I do too. X
-
Hi @tiredandlonely welcome to the community! Sorry to hear about your current situation. Are you looking into working from home?Disability Gamechanger - 2019
-
That would be amazing but I am only trained in Care. I have no idea about working in an office environment
-
You may find the information provided in finding a job that matches your skills usefulDisability Gamechanger - 2019
-
Thanks
-
Also, are you receiving any emotional support from your GP?Disability Gamechanger - 2019
-
Yes, it may be not secure for your daughter but you can leave your daughter with any family member and use more security stuff. In this way, you can enjoy your job with relaxation.
-
Welcome, sorry this is a problem. How old is she?
What do you want for her, and for you, in an ideal world?
There isn't enough information for the experts by experience here to give you their advice. Mine will just be an idea hoping to give you a smile by suggesting turning the tables!
Be your own Boris, go into battle mode.
Can you, for example, tell S.S. you will switch to day shift, supervise her at weekends and nights, drop her off at their office, where there are professional security staff and expert welfare staff on hand ?
What about writing to announce you have accepted what they said, and therefore, just because you are so eager and willing to comply with their advice, you will in future leave her there weekdays in the mornings, so they can easily and conveniently take her to whatever daycare they find most satisfactory, without risk to anyone.
It seems yet again SS are friends of the tick box, enemies of people!
Brightness
Categories
- All Categories
- 13.3K Start here and say hello!
- 7K Coffee lounge
- 101 Games lounge
- 483 Cost of living
- 4.6K Disability rights and campaigning
- 1.9K Research and opportunities
- 230 Community updates
- 9.6K Talk about your situation
- 2.1K Children, parents, and families
- 1.6K Work and employment
- 807 Education
- 1.7K Housing and independent living
- 1.4K Aids, adaptations, and equipment
- 666 Dating, sex, and relationships
- 374 Exercise and accessible facilities
- 845 Transport and travel
- 32K Talk about money
- 4.6K Benefits and financial support
- 5.2K Employment and Support Allowance (ESA)
- 17.2K PIP, DLA, and AA
- 5K Universal Credit (UC)
- 6.4K Talk about your impairment
- 1.8K Cerebral palsy
- 886 Chronic pain and pain management
- 183 Physical and neurological impairments
- 1.1K Autism and neurodiversity
- 1.3K Mental health and wellbeing
- 328 Sensory impairments
- 832 Rare, invisible, and undiagnosed conditions