Desperate for some help for my son
my son is 21 and has been diagnosed with ASD Aspergers he has Anxiety and become recluse for years now he doesn't go out.I am desperate for some help to help him as I worry about his future.
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Hello @Stephchurch!
Here are some links and resources you might like to look at
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/introduction-to-care-and-support/
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/help-from-social-services-and-charities/
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/care-services-equipment-and-care-homes/https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/care-after-a-hospital-stay/
Does he have a EHCP or not? Call up the local council on Monday morning to request a needs assessment. This is the first part of the process. Ask if a social worker can complete a assessment at your house. If he is interested in doing so, try finding some sort of paid work for him. Does he have any hobbies? Now is the time to look at some job opportunities and think about the future.
What about singing or arts and crafts for example? There are lots of opportunities that are out there, ask around or search online as well. Get him to help you out at home with the laundry or cooking too. Teach him how to use a washing machine, iron etc. Encourage him to leave the house for daily short walks. Support him to make good decisions. -
Hi Christian Thank you for all the links.
He has had an assessment but doesn't have a EHCP I don’t think anymore as he isn’t in education.
He find social interaction very difficult and is interested in gaming & anime.
Thank you again for your reply
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Hi @Stephchurch and welcome to the community.
Here is some information which I have found:You can read the full article from the National Autistic Society here.Centres
Our centres can help you to do activities and socialise with other people. Read about our Centres.
Outreach
An outreach worker could help you to do the things you need or want to do, such as going to college, visiting the doctor, or doing your hobbies. Find out about our outreach services.
Supported employment
Supported employment services can help you to work or prepare for work. More about supported employment.
Support groups
Use our Autism Services Directory to find support groups and social clubs.
Therapists and specialists
You might get support from therapists and specialists such as counsellors and medical professionals.
The NHS also offer support which could help you and your son:Please do let us know how you get on and if there is anything else at all that we can do to help.For adults
If you're an autistic adult or care for an autistic adult, ask your council for a needs assessment.
This is an assessment to find out:
- what problems you're having with everyday life
- what support or financial benefits you might be able to get
For parents and carers
If you look after someone who's autistic, ask your council for a carer's assessment.
This is an assessment to find out what support or financial benefits you might be able to get to help you care for an autistic person.
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Thank you I appreciate your help
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Hi @Chloe_Scope is there an outreach organisation for people with CP, my son needs help at the moment with various problems with living?
“This is my simple religion. No need for temples. No need for complicated philosophy. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple. Your philosophy is simple kindness.”
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Hi @leeCal, I've replied to your other thread. I hope this helps.Scope
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