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The chaotic mosaic that makes up my Cerebral Palsy diagnosis
Heather Lacey is an award-winning disability rights campaigner who regularly speaks on panels and at conferences relating to diversity and inclusion. She has worked with a variety of organisations - including AccessAble, Inclusive Minds, the BBC and Recruitment Industry Disability Initiative and during her time at an international law firm she has contributed to the planning and delivery of disability, mental health and LGBT+ events.
The Cerebral Palsy (CP) community is as varied as the condition itself; we’re a diverse bunch of people from all walks of life and with differing experiences and perspectives. CP exists on a spectrum of sorts, where no two people experience CP in the same way.
One thing that does unite us, is that Cerebral Palsy is a neurological condition. Due to this, it must come as no surprise that there are further differences when it comes not only to symptoms, but to secondary and related conditions.
I have a type of Cerebral Palsy called spastic hemiplegia, which essentially means that the muscles in half of my body are constantly tight and contracted, making some movements and coordination appear jerky and clumsy. With spasticity comes pain, potential bone deformities, overactive reflexes and contractures. Sometimes these symptoms contribute to the development of secondary conditions, as is the case for me.
I remember it vividly; staring at the photo that would impact on my life forever.
When the photo was taken, I was walking on a Floridian beach, soaking in the sunlight and feeling the sand between my toes. It had been a fairly busy couple of weeks, so I relished the opportunity to enjoy the balmy weather. However, when we got back to the hotel room, things didn’t seem so serene.
Staring at the photo mum had taken earlier on a small digital camera display, we noticed that something just didn’t look ‘quite right’. It was quite obvious that there was a large curve in the upper part of my spine, and my neck appeared to jut out at an unusual angle. Back on home soil, my mum dragged me to a doctor, where I reluctantly showed them my back. I spent the appointment red-faced and reticent, ashamed of the way it looked. Several hospital visits later, I was diagnosed with Scheuermann’s Kyphosis, an incurable spinal curvature that was likely to cause me pain and complications for a lifetime.
I was suddenly thrown into a world of spinal braces, pain management and intensive physiotherapy on top of my Cerebral Palsy treatment. I remember being told to wear both my resting night splint for my affected leg as well as my rigid Boston spinal brace. As an insecure teenager, I was overwhelmed when I realised I was discussing invasive surgery and changes to my lifestyle. The CP on its own was something I’d learnt to handle. It hadn’t been entirely smooth sailing, but it was familiar at least.
Like many others I’ve spoken with, the treatment of both conditions wasn’t done in tandem. Due to the type of Cerebral Palsy I have, it’s not necessarily obvious and for whatever reason the link between the two wasn’t made until I approached my consultant at an orthopaedic assessment. Unfortunately, as many would attest to, regular CP care tends to taper off once an individual reaches adulthood. And for some reason, although I now know the two are linked, no-one appeared to prepare my parents for the possibility that I’d develop further conditions related to the CP diagnosis.
If there’s one thing I’ve learnt about having CP, it is that no case is the same and no two days are the same. Each day comes with its own unpredictability, its own variant of pain, fatigue and mobility. As I’ve grown, I’ve learnt to try and embrace this body of mine, spinal curve, spasticity, pain, fatigue and everything in between. When I think back to that photo and my diagnosis, I feel sad. Sad that, despite all my body and brain’s achievements, I was ashamed of it. Ashamed of my cerebral palsy, and of the associated Scheuermann’s Kyphosis, things that are so intrinsic to everything I do and who I am.
To any parents with newly diagnosed children, please know that despite the difficulties, CP and related conditions are not a hindrance to a fulfilling and quality life. I learnt to think of CP as a chaotic mosaic: even though the pieces may be different, and some edges rough, the tiles come together, creating a whole that is one coherent and beautiful piece.
Heather is a contributing writer for several publications including Able magazine and has published work in journals and online articles. She writes posts at no superhero and can be found as @nosuperheroblog on Twitter and Instagram.
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